Bradley (Brad) Jay Cason - Online Memorial Website

Well this was one of Brads biggest pet pevs , if the air wasn't down to 68 (or near that temp, it had to be cool) he would throw this big temper tanturm , mind you this was coming from a grown adult. It was like he was going to die if he got any hotter in the house than that. The sad things is after my accident, he started this big arguement with me and my mom over this and this is one of the reasons he left the house that wkend. ( now Bri Bri is almost like him in that way, which reminds me of him everytime she goes in her lttle fit about how hot she is and that it will take her days to cool off. THANKS BRAD!!!!!!!  lOVE YOU SON <3

Bradley Jay Cason, I miss you to this day. Last night I was reflecting on the fun times we shared... I closed my eyes and your eyes appeared. I couldn't help but to cry, not in mourning but in celebration. You were my guardian angel here on earth. Thank you for being there and helping me through one of the most difficult times of my life. My heart hurts that I never had the chance to express what you meant to me face to face. I know you know now. I don't know where I would be if you hadn't been there for me. I spend a lot of time thinking of you, I never forget you. I'll love you always.

My last memory of brad was our conversation on the phone when your mom was in the hospital after her accident. HE WAS SO EXCITED TO TALK TO ME ABOUT HIS MAUI TRIP, WE SHARED OUR STORIES ESPECIALLY DIVING AT BLACK ROCK AND HOW WONDERFUL IT FELT TO BE FREE WITH THE FISH. BRAD WE WILL MEET THERE AND DIVE TOGETHER,

Hmmm... We had a lot of fun. In fact, I remember one time when I came over and we played for hours. When I finally took time to hang out with your mom and dad, you were not happy. "It's okay if Charysse spends some time with us too, you know."  You answered, "But, she's MY friend."

How about the time that I got you that spy kit. You were so excited. We were going to be spies for the day. You and I assembled the gear and we were ready to go; Spy glasses...a secret hearing device... a secret note pen... Unfortunately, that $38.00 kit was kind of junky. Nothing worked as advertised and we ended up just hiding behind the sofa chairs and giggling as we listened to your mom and dad talk about dinner.

Memories are great to have, and we have so many of them.  After we moved up to northeren Ca.  We missed you sooooooooo much.  But we would talk on the phone, letters, cards and so much more.  I remember the first Christmas we had up here, and we weren't going to be able to come down.  PaPa, and I were out shoping and we found a great Christmas ornament, and said let's get one for each of the famillys, so we all could have the same ornaments on are Christmas trees.  Bradley, was so happy when he got his firs ornament, Stacy, and Dean called and Bradley, said I love you PaPa & NaNa, and that is how the Christmas ornaments started. 

Ever year after that Brad, loved getting his ornament, somtimes he would call and say I haven't got my orament yet.  This was so hard for us to keep going after you left us.  But we know Brad, you would want us to keep sending them.  So for all the other grand kids, when you hang the ornament on the tree think how happy this makes Brad, and we love all of you, all the way to the sky and back! 

I remember when you were very little and came to visit with your parents.  I took care of you one evening when your folks went out to play in SF. Well, yeah, I let you roll off the bed and your mom wasn't too happy with me, but you were fine!  Another time you visited as a teen and we went to Alcatraz.  You were really interested in those cells!  Then on another visit, you stayed up all night on our computer playing games and having fun.  You played a lot with Benjamin who was a baby at that time.  We had a great time at the Exploratorium and the Tactile Dome, and strolling down Telegraph.

This is way to hard tonight.  We miss are family hugs Bradley.  I think it started when Bradley was just a little baby, we would say family hugs, and he would hug us and great big kisses.  He never got to big for a family hugs.  I remember one of the last visit down south, Brad, came down, and jump in bed with us, and said family hugs.  He was the most loving person I've ever knowen.  Brad was are special person.  Way more then just a grandson, he was like are own son, loved much more then any one would ever know.   Some times I can close my eyes, and I can feel him, and I hear his voice.  We loved him with all are heart.  I just want the other grandkids to know, that we love them too.  It was just, that Brad was the first grandchild, and ever thing started with him. 

You know that we love you all the way to the sky and back Bradley!!

 

So were do we start, the day you came into this world.  When dad came out and said you should see him.  Or when we ran out of the hospital, and came back with your first football, Papa said you had to have it, along with your fishing pole.  Brad, you were our first grandson, and we miss you more then any thing in this world.  We have so many memories, times we spent together, long walks just talking.  I'll never forget when PaPa was getting ready to build your tree house, and you called and ask for a outlet, to be put in. You told PaPa to go ahead and build it, that way you would have more time to play in it when you came up.  Back then we called you Bradley, you are so special to us.  You will never be gone from us, and we will see you in Heaven!

I remember a lot of memories with you but i'm going to say a few.I remember I was like 4 maybe 5,you were running with feathers,our bird,and me and bri were chasing you to get him.We ran around the house a few times.That was my favorite memory.Another is someone at day care was messing with me.So when we got home we told Dad and mom but Brad heard it and he brought me into the living room and he told me to fight him and he said,"I will only block," but he wouldn't hit so I did it and bri comes in and says,"Could I do it to,"And of course she did.So I found out Brad wasn't a very good blocker.If he was,he probably would of blocked me from punching him in the nose.That was a funny memory to remember.Those are my favorite memories with you.I love you.

Shopping for school clothes every September Emptying cigarette ashes in my new car Waiting with friends for me to pick you up Preparing fried egg sandwiches for lunch Watching your face as you saw the urn with your great grandmother's ashes(you were four) Sharing your poker hands on the web Stepping over your six foot body asleep on my living room floor Avocados and tomatoes Planning for your future: job promotion and going back to school And our many philosophical discussions, especially our last one........."Gammy, let's talk about Nature and Nurture......their differences." Yes, my first grandchild, we will always talk, and smile, and talk again....always!

Hey, i remember only a few things and i dnt no y but i do remember something. I remember win we went 2 six flags 2gether. I was so excited but still scared because it was my 1st time on goliath. As we were standing in line i said i have 2 go peeeeeeee. Then u said well cnt u wait. then i said NO I HAVE 2 GO NOW!!! Then u came with me and made it bak in time 2 get bak in line. (we had frends saving our spotz). When we got on the ride i thot i was goin 2 die. But i didnt and i loved that ride. 1nce we got off the ride u high 5ed me and said good job. Just recently we went 2 6flags and we went on goliath and the hole time i was thinkn of u. its ohk tho bcuz the hole time i new u were on the ride with me and at the end of the ride we got off and u probably gave me a high 5 and said u go bri... Miss u and luv ya... SiSsy Bri

One of my latest memories of you my son , was after my accident. I keep trying to get up from the couch, I was so tired of staying on it. Brad came over to me and in a stern voice said " Mom if you get up one more time I will put you in a plastic bubble" I couldn't help but look at him and smile as I was laughing inside. It was the way he said it. He was so concern about me and taking charge and here is my child yelling at me. All I could do was listen and say okay Brad.